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You Know You’re a Girly Girl When…

16 Saturday Sep 2017

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Or 25 ways you are girly!

You Know You’re a Girly Girl When:

1. You want everything in pink

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2. You always want to be called princess

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3. You like to wear soft clothing

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4. You love to collect cute things

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5. You enjoy looking nice, while everyone always wonders where you’re going

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6. You rather go shopping than eat

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7. You could totally open up a beauty & make up store with your personal stash

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8. You verbally abbreviate certain words ( gorgeous, totally, adorable… )

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9. You can’t leave the house without your make up and nails polished

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10. You cry during romantic movies

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11. All your accessories have to be cute!

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12. You love to decorate and plan parties

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13. You can operate easily in heels as well as sneakers

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14. You’re constantly being misunderstood as not being intelligent, smart, or having food sense due you your carefree, light, & aesthetic nature

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15. You care about how you and your environment looks

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16. You have multiple uses for many of your personal & household products

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17. You get excited over things others don’t see necessary

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18. You can rise at toastmasters by talking about one subject throughly.

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19. Jewerly is a necessity

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20. You have more clothes than any other object in your home

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21. You never ‘pack light’

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22. You enjoy fashion magazines

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23. You take a picture of EVERYTHING

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24. You take a looooong time to get ready

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25. Although you have thousands of clothes, you feel you have nothing right for the occasion

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The Dress, an Icon of a Woman?

03 Monday Apr 2017

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Dresses. This article of clothing has caused debate for decades. It’s a symbol of freedom or repression, identity or stereotype, femininity or anti-feminism. Since time evovled it has become attributed to & accepted of the woman & not the man.

Yet looking at earlier replicas of men’s clothing, they wore clothes in drapery that looked like dresses too. Many claim biblically that a woman she should not wear pants. But if they read closely, the Book of Deuteronomy says a man shouldn’t put on clothes pertaining to a woman & a woman shouldn’t put on clothes pertaining to a man.

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My understanding translates that to a woman not putting on clothes MADE for a man: their jeans,pants, etc. Some woman purposely wear as a style the boyfriend jeans boyfriend T-shirt, boyfriend jacket, etc., which is a conscious decision. (Memo: I’m not referring to circumstances where a woman or girl is cold & a man offers his shirt or jacket to keep her warm out of kindness & protection, that’s different.)

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Yet there are clothes MADE for a woman, such as: leggings, pants, jeans, etc. & weren’t meant for a man. As long as men & women don’t mix them or crossdress, I don’t see what the problem is with a woman wearing female styled pants or jeans. I don’t believe Scripture is violated here. Do you?

What are your thoughts on this matter?

*first photo collage from Pinterest

*all other photos taken by author, & contents in the images are also the author’s possessions

 

The Shift for Feminine Women

21 Tuesday Mar 2017

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There’s something special happening to feminine women right now.. We are on the cusp, the verge, the brink of a new season to receive something VERY SPECIAL & SIGNIFICANT!

Don’t miss your appointment! Discover more about how to receive the answer to your prayers, the deepest desire of your heart, & the needed change for your life:

Femininity A-Z, alphabet list..

19 Sunday Mar 2017

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If a feminine woman could be described,  her mystery might be touched with any,  most, or all of these adjectives:

A

~ adaptable to an environment & others
~ accepting of others & the expected
~ affectionate
~ affable

B

~ beautiful look & make beauty
~ bubbly persona
~ breathtaking energy & spirit

C

~ creative
~ calm
~ considerate
~ charming
~ compassionate
~ credible
~ calling
~ cheerful
~ calming
~ charming

D

~ dreamer
~ delightful
~ divine

E

~ etiquette
~ enchanting
~ enthusiastic
~ effective
~ elegant
~ exuberant
~ encouraging
~ extraordinary

F

~ freedom to express & experience life
~ forgiving
~ fascinating

G

~ gentle spirit
~ gorgeous
~ genuine
~ generous
~ gracious
~ gifted

H

~ heavenly
~ happy with life, self, God
~ honest
~ humanitarian

I

~ instrumental
~ inspiring
~ impressive
~ insightful
~ imaginative
~ intuitive
~ ingenious
~ incandescent

J

~ journey enjoy with sensual pleasure
~ joyful

K

~ kindness
~ keen

L

~ love, be loving & open to receive love
~ laughter
~ loyal
~ lively

M

~ movements
~ motherly
~ modest
~ moral the highest standards

N

~ nuture those around you, esp pets, kids, elderly
~ natural
~ noble
~ nubile suitable for marriage
~ natural

O

~ organized
~ optimistic
~ open

P

~ pleasant & pleasant words
~ prepared
~ passionate
~ persuasive
~ progressive
~ productive

Q

~ queenly
~ quiet

R

~ reserved & radiant
~ reserved
~ romantic
~ ravishing
~ reliable

S

~ sweetness & softness
~ sensual
~ sympathetic
~ sincere
~ sensitive
~ subtle

T

~ tender in response
~ touch
~ thoughtful
~ trustworthy

U

~ understanding  with sympathy
~ uplifting
~ unselfish
~ uplifting

V

~ vulnerable
~ versatile
~ vigorous

W

~ wonder
~ wise
~ welcoming
~ warmhearted
~ wonderful

X

~ Xenodochial friendly to strangers

Y

~ youthful
~ yielding

Z

~ zephyr zesty zippy ( full of energy )
~ Zaftig ( plump juicy woman )

1 Million ways to spend $20

14 Tuesday Mar 2017

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There’s 1 million ways to spend $20…at target. Yes it’s true. I can prove it. But for now, here’s how I decided to spend mine.

I needed some girlie things as well as practical things. I really wanted Milani lip gloss & a waffle maker. Unfortunately, the store I went to no longer carried waffle makers. They told me I had to order it online & have it shipped there, even though I saw tons of other appliances: coffee makers, toasters, mini ovens, blenders, etc. They even kept up the sign by the aisle labeled ‘Waffle Makers’ 😢 And to top it off, I saw every other cosmetic line but Miliani! (why?)

Note: this is not a complaint, I am thoroughly happy with my experience & purchases. 😊 I just went in with one purpose & came out with another.

So, after the rehearsal of putting 6 things in my cart & removing half of them at the register, here is what I purchased:

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I needed a lampshade for my lamp (also from target):

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A tray for holding my mini electronics gear:

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And decided to splurge on a very delectable smelling candle to bring a sweet earthy musk into my room:

How would you spend $20…at Target?

 

Why Hugging Might Save You…

27 Monday Feb 2017

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A feminine woman should be a professional hugger. Hugging is an art that gives to the huggee as well as the hugger.

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Did you know that hugging:

~releases endorphins in your brain & body

~speeds up any physical recovery needed

~helps grow, keep, & mature you socially & emotionally

So why isn’t everybody doing it more?

Since the benefits are wonderful & free, we should use every opportunity, reason, & excuse to hug. Having a hug several times a day will make anyone happier, calmer, & sweeter.

Hugging can cheer, comfort, & connect you to someone. It’s a great form of physical communication. Whether or not we are lovers or friends, family or acquaintances, hugging is necessary for a luscious life.

There are 5 types of basic hugs:

  1. Front hug *best one!
  2. Side hug
  3. Angle hug
  4. Spoon hug
  5. Back hug

Any hug is good for you, but the front one seems to be the most popular & desired.  Which one is your favorite?

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Top 3 Feminine Scriptures in the Bible!

09 Monday Jan 2017

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Yes that’s right! I found femininity right in the Bible. These scriptures are found from the wisdom book of Proverbs…

Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul and health to the bones. Proverbs 16:24

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This means we should have pleasant things to say because our words carry such powerful energy that it can effect not only the atmosphere, but our bodies as well. Sweet, loving, good words create health & pleasure to our souls and bodies while evil, bad, or negative ones are a detriment. This revelation from the Lord was given to us well before we discovered this fact to be true. And now new philosophies & religions have been created around this understanding, but our Creator explained this concept to His people first. We are now realizing the depth of this truth, with scientific studies currently supporting this.

Every wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one plucks it down with her hands. Proverbs 14:1

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This one asserts that as feminine women, we need to learn to have discretion & understanding on how to not only create a ‘home’, but to maintain it. It is clear here, that the woman has the power to create a loving, healthy environment or a hateful, divided one. Proverbs has a lot of wonderful advice on how to make a wonderful home that your family feel safe, nurtured, & inspired in.

Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart. Proverbs 27:9

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In one of my calls I expound on how important fragrance is and how it relates Biblically to the spiritual realm, so if you want more in depth info, go to my classes tab and access ref#14 on the conference call. Here’s a snippet of what I shared: perfume is an outer symbol of our character & nature. Every one is pleased to smell something delightful. We are full of joy to smell good things, so it is important to daily wear ‘inner’ perfume of the Spirit, which has nine distinct flavors or fruits. We should work on our character so that others are blessed by our presence and not put off by it. Each time you put on perfume, you should be reminded it is the invisible perfume we also carry us equally important to the makeup of our character and to bless others with.

Those are my top feminine scriptures from the Word of God. Do you identify with these or do other scriptures connect more with your feminine persona? Please share them with me!

The Fragrant One

29 Thursday Dec 2016

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Hi Lovelies!

Today I wanted to share pages from my feminine Journal, where I reflect on scents & smells…

So I found these Infographics on Pinterest (except 1st one) on perfume that I found fascinating:

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The cost of smelling good rises as the concentration of oils, herbs, & flowers increase!

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There’s a breakdown of the measure of pure scent in each type of perfume…seems very little.

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Here’s a guide to the kinds of lovely smells you may be attracted to based on the scent group.

Enjoy the discovery of smells and being smelt 💖🌸🍥🌸💖

How High Heels are Masculine still today..

07 Wednesday Dec 2016

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High Heels are not feminine…!

Before you throw your stilettos at me, please, let me explain.

You see the ‘high heel’ was originally created for men. That’s right FOR MEN around the world, to show higher status, to help ride animals, & to fight with weaponry. The shoes were bold, powerful, and masculine. Empires such as the Ottoman, Egyptian, Persian, Italian, & England all fortified its use into their culture & fashion.

Then the horrific happens:

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Oh no!!! You mean to be more masculine,  women decided to WEAR HEELS?!!

Now fast forward to the period of where women wanted ‘equal rights’ and in order to bring women equality in the work force, women wore heels. They understood that the shoes did several magical things for them:

*puts them on the same height level as the average man

*makes up for the deficiency or difference in women compared to men

*gives them a sense of strength, power, & command

But we know femininity is soft, submissive, & sweet. It is also very gentle and unassuming. So due to its nature & purpose, femininity cannot be activated with high heels. Femininity accepts the role of a man being strong, powerful, & in command. She must be at his side as his compliment not his competitor.

Now, where does this leave us? I have plenty of heels, so what should I do?

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I don’t know if I will donate them all, but I am sure of this: I not only feel more feminine without them, but men are less intimidated to approach me when I wear flats or a very low heel.

Until I figure out the best & generous way to dispose of my high heels, I will continue to wear tennis shoes,  flats, & low heels as I enjoy the company of masculine men 🙂

Sources:

Mental floss

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Call Me ‘Exotic’

23 Tuesday Aug 2016

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Recently, I found & read something surprising on a blog and then about a current young girl movement. They explained why they are emphatically against being labeled as, of all things, ‘exotic’. Their sentiment seems to stem from the word used to describe a particular the category of inanimate living things like animals, plants, fruits, or flowers. Therefore, it appeared degrading to them to be termed as such.

Yes, I agree with the freedom to think, feel, & form an opinion about anything in this world of ours. So I have no argument against those girls & young women, who feel this way. What one perceives, is, what one perceives..

Yet, as for me, I have an affinity with this word EXOTIC…

It is defined as very different, strange, unusual, & Mysterious…

In addition, something exotic is also seen as from another part of the world or from a foreign place.

Well, according the John 18:36, I AM EXOTIC!

Jesus answered, “My Kingdom is not of this world; if my kingdom were of this world, then would my servants fight,….”

Because the Son of Man is my King, I belong to his Kingdom. And not of this world.

Truly, exotic-ness to a person is relative to the environment he or she lives in, like accents or produce. It is also a point of view. So, as a feminine woman, I personally don’t mind being grouped in with the flowers & fruits. Women have ALWAYS been associated with these things since the beginning of time, along with various types of foods or spices..

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We are known as peaches, cherries, berries, & limes. Men refer to us as pumpkins, honey, sugar, & syrups! And aren’t we the roses, violets, and tulips of a man’s heart?

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Oh, do think of me as Exotic!

There are many facial and physical features some people find exotic, like sharp cheek bones, coarse hair, sexy round eyes, & bubble butts, but I prefer my spirit be exotic above these. I desire to come from foreign lands & realms, to tell tales of special kingdoms forgotten by men. I want to share the native intangible gifts my presence brings to any person willing to embrace me. I love to be extra-ordinary, to deliver refreshment to anyone’s mundane lifestyle.

I breath to embody the EXOTIC.

Please tell me you aren’t offended by this & that you have another perspective on this word as well.