As a feminine woman, I’ve being asking the Lord to help me simplify my life. He responded with a number a things to do in order to have a more simple life.
It is my opinion, that every woman in Christ that is blossoming in her femininity should not have a complicated life. Complex thoughts yes. Complex creativity yes. Complex behavior yes. But a complex life?
No. She should aim to simplify things so she will not be overcome, overwhelmed, or overpowered with life. Then she could truly flow in and share peace with others.
Part of this process is to stop blogging. Yes blogging. The Lord is giving me so much content during this season, that it needs to be nestled and framed into books. I have authored 19 as of 10.26.20 on Femininity. I will now turn toward producing more, to help the feminine soul blossom.
Other wise, it’s been lovely, it’s been wild, but it’s time to go from glory to glory..
Connect with me on my main site, as I keep this blog up for references, and I will still be offering free ebooks and other feminine literature / audio in my store Pink Peach & Cream, to those passionate about becoming and maintaining ultra femininity.
This is the last post on this site…Will you miss me or my blogs?
Amidst all of the Male Prophets we grow up learning about, did you know that there were also Women recorded in history as Prophets? That’s right! Among the Major & Minor Prophets as Recorded in their Self-Named Books, like Isaiah, Ezekiel, Jeremiah, & Daniel, we have EIGHT Female Prophetesses. Gives new thought to women not speaking up in a religious atmosphere, doesn’t it??
Even though 1-4 “verses” or lines were written about each one, we can learn much from those few words about their character, as well as the historical time they lived in.
But first test – Can you guess who they were?
Who was the sister of a major Old Testament Prophet that was also the first recorded Praise Team Leader?
Who were the four unnamed Woman Prophets?
Which female Prophetess was also a Judge in Israel?
Which Prophetess from the tribe of A’ser, spoke over the child Jesus?
Answers at the bottom!
Exodus 15:20-21 – Miriam – we know her as a dancer, a singer, and an instrumentalist (she played the Tamborine), she also also prone to jealously over her brother, but most of the time obeyed the Lord’s authority
Judges 4:4 – Deborah – this woman was know for the place she dwelled, under a tree, as people came to her continually for judgement in Israel, and she led the people in a victorious war over their enemies and sung about it afterward
II Kings 22:14 – Huldah – while dwelling in a college, she had connections in constant conversations with high level people, like the priests & the wardrobe keeper’s wife and she was well-respected
Luke 2:36-38 – Anna – it is said she as a older woman of great virtue, served God by fasting and prayers ever day and night, so she could see the Lord clearly when he arrived in Jerusalem
Acts 21:8-9 – 4 Virgin Daughters – as some of the disciples with Paul lodged temporarily with Philip, known as the evangelist, it was noted that his daughters were reputed to be not only chaste but prophetic in their role in the region
These woman are historical proof that the female gender was also respected in the role of a Prophet. The Lord Himself, whom sent them to proclaim, announce, and expose things, was with them. He spoke to them and did not let one of their prophecies be untrue.
Those, usually men whom are very religious and strict by ancient law, already fulfilled (not eradicated, but fulfilled), who said a woman cannot and should not speak in the ‘church’ in quoting one Scripture, not with full knowledge of the culture, custom, and answers to a concern at one time in history, should realize that before there was a ‘church building or religious gathering‘, God sent WOMEN to SPEAK on HIS BEHALF to PROCLAIM very important matters of direction, truth, & encouragement over a NATION, the children of Israel. God Bless the Women..
And why I call myself the Feminine Princess. All those who associate and connect with this quest are also Feminine Princesses 🙂
There’s four types of Princesses:
the ‘Disney Princess’
a Nickname someone gives you
the self proclaimed Princesses (illustration: Youtube)
and then there’s the Real Princess
How does one qualify for each?
The ‘Disney Princess’ (about 14 total)
be Female
be Human (or humanish)
star in a Disney animated film
be an actual Princess (see real Princess below)
*note: almost all of them never perform a heroistic act
A Nickname
a Female likened to a princess, but is not an actual princess
can be used as a Compliment or an Insult
a Girl or Woman having the characteristics of one
or One called such for being a high ranking person in her sphere
The Self-proclaimed Princesses
Women and Girls whom label themselves as a Princess
a Gal usually living a lusher life than the average person
She commonly dresses like her ideal of princess’ garb, which could be based on Disney’s wardrobes or other garments generally accepted for a princess
Real Princess (either of these conditions)
a Woman, being the daughter of a King or granddaughter of a Sovereign, birthed into royalty
or a Woman whom marries a Prince
or a Female member of a royal family that does not reign
or a Woman whom has sovereign power and does a noble and great deed
Real Princess have extensive training and grooming to adjust them to their high level functionality and role in life. They are highly educated, know several languages, involved in multiple rare hobbies, learn proper etiquette, have great manners, understand various forms of address, always look impeccable, are good role models, support a cause or charity, know how to converse well in any situation, and are interested in arts & culture. Whew!
Do you consider yourself a princess? if so, which one?
This is why I call myself a Feminine princess:
as a Believer:
I belong to a Spiritual Royal Family (The Father has made his son King of Kings seen in Deuteronomy 10:17 & I Timothy 6:14-15 ) and heir to Abraham, one of the first richest men on this planet (see Genesis 13:2 & Romans 4:13)
in Femininity:
I perfect and polish my art & science that I might become high ranking in this sphere
as His Anointed Maid-Servant:
this is my assignment from God, and He Himself bestowed this title upon me, before I was yet one ( I Samuel 9:16, 10:1, 16:1,3, 12-13 & I Kings 19:16)
We are the only gender and species on the planet that was made from ANOTHER LIVING BEING. Everything else was made and formed from elements that weren’t alive. Animals, Plants, Flowers, even Men were formed / created from all types natural substances. But women? We were formed from Man.
What does that have to do with Mary? I find it interesting that the LORD approached her, via an angel, with a proposition that was scientifically is the opposite direction of the initial creation flow.
The Angel says that the Lord’s Spirit will come upon her, a woman, to produce a Child, whom ‘shall be called the Son of God’ ~Luke 1:35. Consider that for a moment. Now God is using a Woman to make a Man, without any other man’s assistance. Man is now being created by a living thing.
Why did God chose a woman instead of just creating Jesus from the earth like He did Adam? I believe it’s because of our unique characteristics. We have more genes than men (1000 on each of our two X chromosomes, while men have 45 on their one Y chromosome). Yet I don’t think we were chosen for our genes alone, but also for our spirit. Since we have two X chromosomes, indicating our femaleness, womanhood, & femininity, I think we were chosen because we were the counterpart to God’s own Spirit.
Think about it. If His spirit wasn’t pure masculinity, then He would need to mix with maleness on the earth to be reproduced here. Being that He choose a feminine spirit, He is / was enough masculine to produce a baby.
This makes me feel….wonderful. Knowing that Mary, her spirit, her femininity, her chromosomes, rest in me. And it’s potent enough to get me noticed….by God. Women, feel that truth the next time you feel unworthy. God notices and loves you so much, He chose to have a Child with your gender ♡
I had a close friend of mine reference my special time of the month as ‘icky’. Fortunately for me, I don’t see nor experience it that way. I may be one in 3 billion women in this earth, ok 3.838 billion to be exact, at the moment I wrote this, covering 49.6% of the humans on the planet, but as a feminine woman, I don’t actually feel any negative emotions about my menstrual cycle at all. Some women get all worked up about the consequences of Eve’s actions, but no woman can say for certainty that she would not have done the same thing.
But that’s another post..
Anyway, back to the monthly cycle, period, or the ‘time of visitation‘ as we call it in my family. We’ve always warned each other that ‘our visitor is here‘ when referring to our periods.
I may be one of the few that feel this way but I would also challenge you to reconsider your menstrual. Having your cycle is actually very symbolic. God always works good out of evil, doesn’t He? So it should no longer be looked at as a curse of Eve, but a blessing for women.
Your cycle is a period of rest, renewal, and release. Let me explain more…
REST. what female doesn’t like another excuse to rest? Due to one fact: often, we do a lot. I mean a lot. I won’t exhaust you with a long list of just surface things we take care of. but if you’re a female, you know. And we usually put others before ourselves, which means we may not have scheduled time for ourselves. Our period gives us an immediate pass to relax and focus on ourselves, that we may be at our best for others and ourselves.
RENEWAL. a predetermined cycle that restarts every 30 or so days, neatly fitting into each month, gives us an opportunity to renewal ourselves. Just as the moon has a 30 day phase of fully appearing and disappearing symbolizing rebirth, the woman is comparable. You have your preference on how you want to spend your time being restored and revived, but as a feminine woman, I choose to transform to unchartered areas of my life towards feminine excellence.
RELEASE. as the blood flows from our inner most private and sacred part of our nature, it’s a signal to allow any part of ourselves that we no longer desire to keep, currently have no need of, or want to disassociate from, to go. We willing let it part from our souls, spirits, and bodies. We feel lighter. Only retaining what we desire, need, and want in our lives. This helps us grow and evolve, while experiencing a fuller life of our true selves.
Will you welcome your special time each month, as a designated divine time for your flourishing?
Here is a video of “8 Things to do When You’re on IT” and need relief & comfort. let me know your thoughts and what you do when you’re on your period.
Pics from Pixabay!
Rather read the list? See below!
What do you do when you’re on your period?
8 Things to do when You’re on IT
1. Rub a blend of essential oils that targets female hormonal balance for women onto my belly.
2. Drink Raspberry Tea. It’s known for being good to induce or regulate your period.
3. Watching an emotionally charged movie. This is excellent for releasing emotions that are usually generated during this time that may be felt deeply and intensely. Recently, I watched a 1979 Aramaic film of Jesus and was crying when they took him!
4. Rest. Laying down in the bed under the comfort of warm and security is a great rejuvenator during this time.
5. Read or listen to a love story. What a great way to liberate your passions!
6. Journal. It’s so much easier when your body slows you down for you to think about things you want to express on paper then when you’re in a flurry of things appear “normal”.
7. Search for pins for your Pinterest board. It was amazing that I have never understood the hype around smoothie bowls! I know it’s been around for 10 years with the birthing out the Acai bowl, but I just preferred sipping my smoothies rather than eating them. But the last time I was on my period, I got a craving for a cool dessert with a snack twist to it. I looked on Pinterest and found smoothie bowls and fell in love. Nine years later I finally embraced the trend. But this is what my first one looked like on that day of my period:
8. Take a walk in nature. Just walking my dog or digging my feet in the wet sand, puts my spirit and soul in the perspective of a world outside of what’s happening within mine. Breathing fresh air re-grounds me to my connection on this earth, as opposed to being enclosed with the thousand rapid dynamic changes are occurring within my body and soul.
*disclaimer: I’m not prescribing treatment as a doctor would. I’m only sharing what I do on my period.
About 15.03 million American women were single in 2018. And only a third of them desired to get married, according to statista.com. And….I used to be one of them. Single & desiring marriages, I mean. Until I met my husband.
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Years ago, I was wondering why I wasn’t connecting with the man of my dreams. I started to do all kinds of work on my life: you know what they say ‘Change your reaction, Change your attraction’. Or maybe that was me, but anyway, I knew the more I improved myself, the better chances I have to meeting my man!
I started studying the four most prominent and unforgettable women that married the most influential, wealthy, and admirable men of their time. I wrote all my findings in a book here. Those women were – Abigail, Rebekkah, Esther, & Ruth.
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I emulated the patterns I saw in their lives as well as their interactions with both men and women. And I found their timeless advice to prove sounder than any of today’s relationship coaches.
Things considered counterintuitive, self-sacrificing, & too old fashioned is exactly what I did. Want a seek peek? Listen to my podcast on the topic here.
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That’s when I met my husband, whom is the man of my dreams, and got married. My story has been shared at our wedding.
Are you looking for Him now? Please let me know in the comments below and what city you’re in and how long you’ve been dating.
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Be encouraged, dear seeker, if you follow the untraditional counsel I discovered, you just might find the One.
Suddenly, with some sort of unspoken, unplanned, and uncanny cadence, it is happening… I see people I never thought existed from my place of origin arising. Empathic, Highly Sensitive, Reserved but Secluded Warriors emerging now to say: I exist, I am unashamed of who I am, and this is what I need to survive. Their mantra is I will help you discover me…
I am not this way to be ‘discovered’, but that appears to be the movement of our culture. It almost seems in fashion today to say your special because you’re empathic or ultra sensitive. But we are not everyone nor everywhere. Our percentage is small and those within us as Believers are even smaller, the Sacred Sensorials.
Here’s some good news about this tiny group: it can grow. And growth means more like us. More like us means we can be understood, communicate within our language, and feel at home, which is rare in the world.
The Sacred Sensorial. What is it? Who are we? How can we grow?
This is the term I use to describe a special phenomenon of creatures being made or revealed that I’m grateful to witness at this time. They are spiritual people, that truly seek, pray, and desire, the Beauty of God’s holiness. While in the process of becoming godly or god-like, they metamorphosis into empathic and highly sensitive natures.
God is empathic and extremely sensitive, or how else does He demonstrate countless movements of compassion toward us? And since we become who we are most around, if we spend a lot of time with God, won’t we become like him too?
Whether the attribute comes before the action or the action before the attribute, I do not know, but in my case, I had the attribute before the action. I grew up in my teens a highly sensitive child, then became empathic in my twenties, way before I sought a closer marital relationship with Christ.
Then He showed me. Later. Much later. After being committed to Him for a long time, He exposed to me how the attributes of those labelled personalities can be repurposed for Him. Rather, they were initially purposed for Him, but others have misinterpreted its purpose and just try to live in peace with it. But it is actually a calling from God to minister His Divine assignments and messages to others. How many empaths know this? How many are not using their gift to the full capacity it was created for, but instead just shield themselves in ways to cope?
Coping is necessary! We need to be our best, and we are this, when we are balanced and harmonized from within to without, but we weren’t given this gift to cope and recharge, and rejuvenate only. We are supposed to lead others in unknown things in the spiritual realm because God entrusted those things to us. The Group with the group.
Anyone desiring to become a Sacred Sensorial can become one. the action before the attributes will be accepted of God too. He will grant any prayer that’s according to HIs will and desires to serve Him. He will bestow it upon you as a result of extreme intimacy with God.
Are you interested in learning more? How our methods of living, dealing, and flourishing differ from the usual advice for empaths or highly sensitives? Comment below! If so, I will share more about this, how to cultivate it, how to live in it, how to have fun, and practice serene ways to develop who you are, etc. in either a later post, or a video, but definitely in my next book! If you need guidance on closer spirituality with God to position yourself to advance in Sensorial Sacredness, read my latest book on distinctions here.
Tell me, do you consider yourself a growing Sacred Sensorial?
How Music can Control –ahem, I mean– Influence Your Feminine Life….
Music is a conditioning program; whenever you hear lyrics set to a rhythm, your cultivating those frequencies, which penetrate deeper, quicker, & easier with sound, into your genes, as you move and or sing along to a song. Soon your life will create a situation, in some clever and innovative way, that will have stemmed from the root of that song you listened to. It takes a reflective and discerning person to recognize the correlation between the music they listen to and the life they are experiencing.
This is why it is very important to be mindful of what you’re listening to and make sure you agree with all of the lyrics and its delivery (tone, inflection, attitude, spirit), because it will become your life in some kind of ingenious way.
As a feminine women, we should be listening to things that nurture our genetic disposition and purpose. It should create things such as beauty, harmony, balance, & love. These are the things that a feminine woman excels in. She spends a lot of her time meditating and focusing on those elements, as an ultra feminine one.
Some suggestions of good choices are:
*peaceful instrumentals like classical romance or soothing traditional jazz
*sensual Eastern percussion
*divine inspirational lifts
*dramatic epic moods
*affirming and positive and loving lyrics
When a woman listens to bad sad evil relationship songs, crazy intense wild instrumental tracks, rated X lyrics, pessimistic life perspectives, & etc, she sets herself up for those senarios to play out in her life and if she’s already experienced that, it keeps her in that mindset, halting her growth and deliverance.
Consider the water and plant experiments that were widely publicized, especially water ones done by Masaru Emoto. Like this planet, we are 70% water. Music influences our emotions, thoughts, and speech. A woman creates things in her atmosphere, in her DNA, and in her near future, if not in her present, the energies that reflect from those areas.
What we believe, feel, and speak has resulted in our life, and is our life. Why focus on what you don’t want in life? If you want to change your life in anyway, change the music you’re listening to and start nurturing those things you want.
Fresh, white crisp pages began calling me to imprint unsharpened lead on it. Well not really – I used a computer.
I wrote something again.
The volcanic desire to share what I learned with you, just had to be birthed, organized, and decorated. I saw it clearly one day, or rather night.
It was about the Layers in Femininity.
I found three different categories of Femininity women were in and what each meant. I interpreted quickly the revelation I was given in less than 12 hours. It turned out to be 50% of the book. Then it doubled itself over the next several days.
As a Feminine Expressive Arts Consultant, I included a treat in this course for my readers. This book contains nine various expressive arts activities, that are not only extremely therapeutic, but help a woman identify, understand, and polish each stage of femininity. Here’s an excerpt of what’s inside:
Have you ever bought anything that says 100% of the contents inside? Did you know if you put a little bit of something else with it, it’s no longer 100%? Even if you put a tiny bit of something, like .0005%, it’s still not purely 100%. Appropriately, that’s the same with femininity. There’s femininity and then there’s diluted versions of femininity.
Think of the well-known chemical formula of H2O, which represents Water. If you change the compound to HO2, you get Hydroperoxyl instead. If you switch around the same components, you get very different results. Changing the elements of femininity evolves into an anomaly, a deviation, a mutation and it’s not pure femininity.
Each level of femininity has its own ingredients. The purest and highest form of femininity is unmixed, unpolluted, and unchanged from its original form. It can be smelled, tasted, felt, heard, and seen. Masculine men can sense immediately and subconsciously, if a woman has feminine attributes or not, as well as which level of femininity she is in, even though he is not feminine. A truly feminine spirit can be sensed by anyone in the atmosphere whether they are feminine or not..
Get your copy today of over 100 pages about the levels of femininity! For more pleasure, Watch my trailer on it here! Which level are you on? This book also has a test to place you in your current level of femininity, as well as affirmations for each level of femininity. Read this book to continue elevating in your journey of femininity today!
How to be Feminine in a society that promotes over-ambitious, aggressively competitive, & overtly sexual Women?
My personal conviction in 5 steps:
1. Stand firm in your Feminine strength, energy, and spirit. The Father gave you these traits innatel. Believe in the power & validity of your gifts as a woman and allow no one to bully or dissuade you, unless you decide to change a faucet of yourself. Be not ashamed nor embarrassed in what you were created to be!
2. Respect other opinions and decisions of women that don’t want to be feminine. Diversity in society keeps life interesting and it also allows our difference to be more pronounced. We can learn and have relationships with everyone, as long as people are being their authentic and true selves without offending others. You will also gain the respect of others, as you respect them too.
3. Find others of like-minded spirits in order to stay sharpened and rooted in your feminine identity. Make friends, create a support group, and / or have get-togethers where you can share in girly like activities. (Join my new feminine community here!)
4. Mastery is only achieved by perfectly practicing a skill. If you make a daily habit to perfect femininity, you will constantly be immersed in it, and it will become natural for you to always respond in feminine ways, even in adverse environments.
5. Make a blueprint or strategy on how to carry out your feminine activities. For instance, my plan of practice is categorized by the day of the month, in which I spend time doing exercises in each feminine focus. See below:
Are you interested in my whole blueprint? I’ll be making a course out of this soon! If you would like to learn, join our FTP community here and opt in to the perfection feminine course.
How are you staying rooted in your femininity, with all the political and personal changes in society involving gender identification and personality redefinition?
