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Why ❤️️ Love ❤️️ Is The Essence of Being a Woman

23 Wednesday Mar 2016

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Why is love the essence  of a feminine woman? Think about the nature of a man for a minute. Especially a masculine one. Men are aggressive hunters who realize, if they don’t find, overpower, & capture, they don’t eat, work, or live. And if they don’t eat, work, or live, they can’t provide. Not being able to provide, whether for themselves, their immediate family, or others, lessens their self esteem & perception.

Because of this, Men are under pressure to live up to their own self image, to measure up to society, and certainly to succeed for their families.  This hunting and providing takes a LOT of their energy, mentality, and time. They don’t have the capacity to constantly dwell from a position of Love. If they did, they would not be able to handle these unspoken responsibilities.

It is in a woman’s nature, as well as her duty, to dwell in “Love”. If she doesn’t, who will bring it into their relationships? Innately, she is the creator, operator, and giver of love. She creates an atmosphere of love in her home and around others and public. She manages when and how to love others to match every unique situation. She gives love to all in her path, whether the recipient is deserving or not.

She has the time, energy, and ability to love. And in giving this love, she positions herself to also receive love. Love is continually flowing toward her life, as she continues to release it to her loved ones, her not so loved ones, and even to pets.

How does she love? We borrow from the famous definition LOVE to get some ideas:

*long suffering – not to endure abuse, but patient with others

*kind –  show kindness to others

*not envious –  be happy for others, but concentrate on your own life

*not boastful or prideful –  sorry no flossing are being full of yourself

*not crass, rude, nor spiteful – be sweet

*selfless –  mothers have perfected this

*has good thoughts –  especially concerning others, this cuts out gossip

*joyful at truth / truthful things – and not deceit, lies, nor evil

*full of hope, faith, belief – not doubting

*patiently endures things of life – with a gift attitude

How will you exemplify Love in your sphere?

Why waiting for the One is the best path in living extreme femininity

09 Wednesday Mar 2016

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True feminine women are moving with the flow of life. Her essence is to go along with the changes of moods, atmospheres, life cycles, & society. She is always adjusting herself to best fit the current situation and to present herself in the best light.

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The nature of a man is a go-getter, to make things happen, to accomplish and succeed. He is the pursuer of things. This is an alpha, masculine male. He knows and operates in his role, just as a feminine woman does in hers.

She does not step outside of it.

She does not take upon his role.

She does not delight in being anything else, but feminine.

Feminine women attract their polar opposite, a masculine man, to the degree that she is feminine. If she lives from her femininity at the core, she will attract a masculine man. He will come. And He will come for her.

She doesn’t have to look for him nor does she have to manipulate a man into being with her. If she does, she is not trusting in her proper function and purpose. And she certainly isn’t being feminine.

The feminine one waits for him to arrive and to choose her. But this waiting is not an idle period. It is a time of reflection, reshaping, and reconditioning herself to best live with the man that finally appears. She may go to shows that he may be at, she may be seen by him in her girly work, or she may just be known by close friends for her great character, but she will be found.

When she is found, she will be ready to receive him, as he will see her as a refreshing flower to his thirsty soul…

Are you ready to receive your love? The one God has chosen for you? Or have you found him already?

Please share your experience with me…

Top 5 things YOU can do, to be the most Feminine

02 Wednesday Mar 2016

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To all the Dolls, Cupcakes, Lovelies, and Beauties on this planet:

To be truly 100% feminine, one must become the ultra extreme in all aspects of femininity. Since there are a number of lovely attributes to femininity, it’s best to focus and master a few at a time.

If I were to choose the first characteristics to concentrate on, I would pick the chief quintessential traits of a feminine woman. There are 5 of them that pronounce your femininity to the world you live in:

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SOFT. If there is one word floating on the mind of an uber feminine gal, it is ‘softness’. She thinks soft in every thing she does. It’s the foundation to her every thought, movement, and action. She will speak softly, walk softly, and if you were to touch her, she would feel soft too. Keep this word on you mind throughout your day, and note how it will influence your actions.

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DRESS. A women in her feminine essence is usually wearing a dress. Short or long, skirt or skort, she will be parading her beautiful legs across town. Dresses make her feel girly, young, and attractive. Many men, especially masculine ones prefer women in dresses than any other kind of clothing. Wear more dresses to experience new feelings and different reactions of others around you.

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FREE. Unleashed freedom is in the heart of a feminine woman. She is free to move, free to express, free to dance, and free to explore. No emotion, circumstance, or person keeps her locked up from living life freely. Practice allowing yourself to be free. Don’t hold back your thoughts, don’t quench the urge to dance, and certainly don’t hide your feelings from those you love. Free yourself to be genuinely you.

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GENTLE. When you observe the most feminine ones, you will see their movements are very gentle, no matter what they are doing. The reach for, hold, and put things away gently. They even sit & rise with such gentle grace, they appear as dancers as they do. Learn to do things with great gentle care, take your time, and be sweet!

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WALK. There is not a woman on earth who lives in her femininity that has not perfected her walk. Her walk may be seductive, sweet, light, or girly, but it is perfected. Start by examining different types of walks and their possible meanings. Find models of the type of walk you want to have and practice in your room at home. Study how to turn, lean, pause, and walk in a straight line without looking weird.

If you are interested in more, I wrote a book on exploring your femininity, full of activities to get you to free your feminine core: http://amzn.com/B019X3WIWM.

I hope you’ve enjoyed these 5 traits of femininity and please share how they work for you or if you have focused on other aspects of femininity.