How do you define Romance??
A feminine woman should be a professional hugger. Hugging is an art that gives to the huggee as well as the hugger.
Did you know that hugging:
~releases endorphins in your brain & body
~speeds up any physical recovery needed
~helps grow, keep, & mature you socially & emotionally
So why isn’t everybody doing it more?
Since the benefits are wonderful & free, we should use every opportunity, reason, & excuse to hug. Having a hug several times a day will make anyone happier, calmer, & sweeter.
Hugging can cheer, comfort, & connect you to someone. It’s a great form of physical communication. Whether or not we are lovers or friends, family or acquaintances, hugging is necessary for a luscious life.
There are 5 types of basic hugs:
Any hug is good for you, but the front one seems to be the most popular & desired. Which one is your favorite?
* photo from Pinterest
Why is love the essence of a feminine woman? Think about the nature of a man for a minute. Especially a masculine one. Men are aggressive hunters who realize, if they don’t find, overpower, & capture, they don’t eat, work, or live. And if they don’t eat, work, or live, they can’t provide. Not being able to provide, whether for themselves, their immediate family, or others, lessens their self esteem & perception.
Because of this, Men are under pressure to live up to their own self image, to measure up to society, and certainly to succeed for their families. This hunting and providing takes a LOT of their energy, mentality, and time. They don’t have the capacity to constantly dwell from a position of Love. If they did, they would not be able to handle these unspoken responsibilities.
It is in a woman’s nature, as well as her duty, to dwell in “Love”. If she doesn’t, who will bring it into their relationships? Innately, she is the creator, operator, and giver of love. She creates an atmosphere of love in her home and around others and public. She manages when and how to love others to match every unique situation. She gives love to all in her path, whether the recipient is deserving or not.
She has the time, energy, and ability to love. And in giving this love, she positions herself to also receive love. Love is continually flowing toward her life, as she continues to release it to her loved ones, her not so loved ones, and even to pets.
How does she love? We borrow from the famous definition LOVE to get some ideas:
*long suffering – not to endure abuse, but patient with others
*kind – show kindness to others
*not envious – be happy for others, but concentrate on your own life
*not boastful or prideful – sorry no flossing are being full of yourself
*not crass, rude, nor spiteful – be sweet
*selfless – mothers have perfected this
*has good thoughts – especially concerning others, this cuts out gossip
*joyful at truth / truthful things – and not deceit, lies, nor evil
*full of hope, faith, belief – not doubting
*patiently endures things of life – with a gift attitude
How will you exemplify Love in your sphere?
True feminine women are moving with the flow of life. Her essence is to go along with the changes of moods, atmospheres, life cycles, & society. She is always adjusting herself to best fit the current situation and to present herself in the best light.
The nature of a man is a go-getter, to make things happen, to accomplish and succeed. He is the pursuer of things. This is an alpha, masculine male. He knows and operates in his role, just as a feminine woman does in hers.
She does not step outside of it.
She does not take upon his role.
She does not delight in being anything else, but feminine.
Feminine women attract their polar opposite, a masculine man, to the degree that she is feminine. If she lives from her femininity at the core, she will attract a masculine man. He will come. And He will come for her.
She doesn’t have to look for him nor does she have to manipulate a man into being with her. If she does, she is not trusting in her proper function and purpose. And she certainly isn’t being feminine.
The feminine one waits for him to arrive and to choose her. But this waiting is not an idle period. It is a time of reflection, reshaping, and reconditioning herself to best live with the man that finally appears. She may go to shows that he may be at, she may be seen by him in her girly work, or she may just be known by close friends for her great character, but she will be found.
When she is found, she will be ready to receive him, as he will see her as a refreshing flower to his thirsty soul…
Are you ready to receive your love? The one God has chosen for you? Or have you found him already?
Please share your experience with me…
I’ve always been in love with love, but didn’t realize it until I became an adult.
Everything that hinted or yelled LOVE, I was for!
And now I get to explore this love with a greater understanding and with the knowledge that there is only one true lover, author and giver of love…and that is the Lord.
Really I’ve been in love with Him my whole life and didn’t know He was the One in love with me.