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Every girl want to know what is at the heart of every man. They appear to be alien to us as they speak different a language, operate at different a frequency, & live with a life different code. They are hard to decipher, since they are so much different from us, which make them very delicious!
But what do they what?
We know what we want: love, security, protection, & a never ending shopping spree!
Yet men are a mystery to us, as we are to them. But I’m happy to share that I found out their secret. Yes, my lovely ones, I have poured over many male&female relation-ship materials: books, sites, movies, songs, poems, & interviews.
And so I uncovered it.
I discovered that, although each man is different and will have different goals, focuses, & mannerisms, they are share a set of basic wants.
Once you discover these wants, you can begin to have a better relationship, conversation, and interaction with them, since you will understand the basis of their existence with us. Men want a lot of things, not unlike us women, but I will concentrate of the top 5 critical wants of many men.
5 To be successful ~ a man’s definition of himself is often defined by how successful he believes he is. He wants to accomplish great things in his own eyes. It could be getting that promotion, winning a trophy, or signing a major client to his company.
4 To be needed ~ men just need to be needed! They need to feel their existence is worth something to the person they care about the most. Whether you ask him to help with understanding a complex concept or pulling something off a high shelf, needing him gives his self worth around you an extra boost.
3 To be respected ~ while women crave to be loved, men need to be respected, by his family, his community, but especially by his lover. He wants to feel that his life , his decisions, his capability of being a man & taking care of business is highly respected. You can show him respect by allowing him to take the reins, made decisions, great or small, & choosing to follow his direction willing & cheerfully. Compliment him on good choices he makes concerning himself or for you.
2 To be honored ~ the best ones to show a man the honor that makes him feel like he can fly over any mountain, are the ones in his own immediate family. Treating him special due to his own uniqueness empowers him to be a great man. It bolsters self esteem, self confidence * self worth, in his mind, spirit, and soul. Watch any environment change to favor those who honor any man.
1 To be admired ~ look at any thing a man has accomplished or overcame, no matter how tiny or enormous. Whichever it is, magnify it in his presence. Genuinely appreciate him for whatever he has done to achieve any thing at any time in his life.
Can you think of anything that you believe men really want?
Share it with me in the comments below!
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To all the Dolls, Cupcakes, Lovelies, and Beauties on this planet:
To be truly 100% feminine, one must become the ultra extreme in all aspects of femininity. Since there are a number of lovely attributes to femininity, it’s best to focus and master a few at a time.
If I were to choose the first characteristics to concentrate on, I would pick the chief quintessential traits of a feminine woman. There are 5 of them that pronounce your femininity to the world you live in:
SOFT. If there is one word floating on the mind of an uber feminine gal, it is ‘softness’. She thinks soft in every thing she does. It’s the foundation to her every thought, movement, and action. She will speak softly, walk softly, and if you were to touch her, she would feel soft too. Keep this word on you mind throughout your day, and note how it will influence your actions.
DRESS. A women in her feminine essence is usually wearing a dress. Short or long, skirt or skort, she will be parading her beautiful legs across town. Dresses make her feel girly, young, and attractive. Many men, especially masculine ones prefer women in dresses than any other kind of clothing. Wear more dresses to experience new feelings and different reactions of others around you.
FREE. Unleashed freedom is in the heart of a feminine woman. She is free to move, free to express, free to dance, and free to explore. No emotion, circumstance, or person keeps her locked up from living life freely. Practice allowing yourself to be free. Don’t hold back your thoughts, don’t quench the urge to dance, and certainly don’t hide your feelings from those you love. Free yourself to be genuinely you.
GENTLE. When you observe the most feminine ones, you will see their movements are very gentle, no matter what they are doing. The reach for, hold, and put things away gently. They even sit & rise with such gentle grace, they appear as dancers as they do. Learn to do things with great gentle care, take your time, and be sweet!
WALK. There is not a woman on earth who lives in her femininity that has not perfected her walk. Her walk may be seductive, sweet, light, or girly, but it is perfected. Start by examining different types of walks and their possible meanings. Find models of the type of walk you want to have and practice in your room at home. Study how to turn, lean, pause, and walk in a straight line without looking weird.
If you are interested in more, I wrote a book on exploring your femininity, full of activities to get you to free your feminine core: http://amzn.com/B019X3WIWM.
I hope you’ve enjoyed these 5 traits of femininity and please share how they work for you or if you have focused on other aspects of femininity.