I came across a comment on a YouTube video about femininity. The commentor said in the Western world there are two types of women, an independent one with masculine qualities whom is building an empire & the soft porn actress ascetic whom is an opportunitist.

Looking at social media, I see how he came up with the these two categories. Although I do agree with him that neither of them are the feminine model. Yet I don’t think every female in the West fits into these two categories.

Unfortunately, these 2 types of stereotypical women capitalize on the image of a woman, purposely or inadvertently, on very extreme opposite ends of the spectrum, selling it to those that are unaware of the true feminine essence & spirit.

American women, come from differing backgrounds, experiences, mindsets & beliefs. From the streets to the penthouse, everyone has a journey, some similar, some different, but we  cannot be  segregated in only those two categories.

I discovered Femininity is

Classy

Ladylike

Sweet

Kind

Loving

Nurturing

Protective

Submissive

Flowing & Free

I’ve seen tomboyish “always wears grays” girls, plain “I don’t wear make up or fancy clothes” chics, aggressive “getting it done” ladies, “glitz and glam” girls, professional “conforming to corporate” women, “always did up” females, & the “made up face but still wearing sweats” chicas. We are all diverse in appearance & mindset.

I hope our diversity continues to expand as the differences among us keep us interesting, simulating, & attractive to the also varied types of men out there.

What type of woman do you consider yourself & do others perceive you differently or the same way?