Connecting with Passion


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Please tell me I’m not alone. If I am I need help. If I’m not, I need to find a community…

I have this thing, this thing where I see others on the height in their passions:


1. Dancing on stage after rehearsals of perfecting

2. Speaking another language after months of practice

3. Coaching the youth for inspiration after years of polishing


And because it looks so flawless and effortless…and the people are so passionate and motivated…and I’m drawn to difference and distinction, I too desire to do what they’re doing! I want to become it too!


Its springs up in me to seek it, learn it, and be it, but when it doesn’t come out as pretty or perfect or polished as theirs, I start wondering….


I think~

I think~

I think I was attracted to their passion and I thought it was their art. God help me!

Am I alone?

The Sacred Sensorials


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Suddenly, with some sort of unspoken, unplanned, and uncanny cadence, it is happening… I see people I never thought existed from my place of origin arising. Empathic, Highly Sensitive, Reserved but Secluded Warriors emerging now to say: I exist, I am unashamed of who I am, and this is what I need to survive. Their mantra is I will help you discover me…

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I am not this way to be ‘discovered’, but that appears to be the movement of our culture. It almost seems in fashion today to say your special  because you’re empathic or ultra sensitive. But we are not everyone nor everywhere. Our percentage is small and those within us as Believers are even smaller, the Sacred Sensorials.

Here’s some good news about this tiny group: it can grow. And growth means more like us. More like us means we can be understood, communicate within our language, and feel at home, which is rare in the world.


The Sacred Sensorial. What is it? Who are we? How can we grow?

This is the term I use to describe a special phenomenon of creatures being made or revealed that I’m grateful to witness at this time. They are spiritual people, that truly seek, pray, and desire, the Beauty of God’s holiness. While in the process of becoming godly or god-like, they metamorphosis into empathic and highly sensitive natures.

God is empathic and extremely sensitive, or how else does He demonstrate countless movements of compassion toward us? And since we become who we are most around, if we spend a lot of time with God, won’t we become like him too?

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Whether the attribute comes before the action or the action before the attribute, I do not know, but in my case, I had the attribute before the action. I grew up in my teens a highly sensitive child, then became empathic in my twenties, way before I sought a closer marital relationship with Christ.

Then He showed me. Later. Much later. After being committed to Him for a long time, He exposed to me how the attributes of those labelled personalities can be repurposed for Him. Rather, they were initially purposed for Him, but others have misinterpreted its purpose and just try to live in peace with it. But it is actually a calling from God to minister His Divine assignments and messages to others. How many empaths know this? How many are not using their gift to the full capacity it was created for, but instead just shield themselves in ways to cope?

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Coping is necessary! We need to be our best, and we are this, when we are balanced and harmonized from within to without, but we weren’t given this gift to cope and recharge, and rejuvenate only. We are supposed to lead others in unknown things in the spiritual realm because God entrusted those things to us. The Group with the group.

Anyone desiring to become a Sacred Sensorial can become one. the action before the attributes will be accepted of God too. He will grant any prayer that’s according to HIs will and desires to serve Him. He will bestow it upon you as a result of extreme intimacy with God.

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Are you interested in learning more? How our methods of living, dealing, and flourishing differ from the usual advice for empaths or highly sensitives? Comment below! If so, I will share more about this, how to cultivate it, how to live in it, how to have fun, and practice serene ways to develop who you are, etc. in either a later post, or a video, but definitely in my next book! If you need guidance on closer spirituality with God to position yourself to advance in Sensorial Sacredness, read my latest book on distinctions here.

Tell me, do you consider yourself a growing Sacred Sensorial?




9 Careers with a Dance Background


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Every Feminine Woman should be dancing, love. It is our purest form of free movement and expression. What I mean by pure is that it will service all of you: your mind for coordination, your body for movement, your soul for style, and your spirit for energy, strength and endurance.

As we move, twirl, leap, and spin in space, more and more, we become perfected in our movements: more intentional, more beautiful, more free. It is a great activity to create a pattern of releasing your emotions, speaking your unique language, and birthing an enchanting atmosphere.

In your perfection, you might consider employing your style into a monetary gig or volunteer it to help others. As my choice of dance is Ancient Eastern Dance (bellydance), I wrote 9 things you can do with the dance style of your choice.



1. Share your art with others through teaching. Your students of choice, from grade school to private adults, are your discretion and aptitude.


2. Perform for your local venues and community. Many spacious places, I surmise, would be happy to host you and your group.


3. Educate others about dance. Because I teach private class, I am well-informed with the history (as well as the myths), complexity, and diversity of my art, ready to share if asked.


4. Judge at a talent show. If you become known in your talent, you may be requested to judge others in their dances.


5. Choreograph various routines for groups of dancers. There is a marketplace for choreographers, whether you are just assisting your home church or picked to design dances for a famous artist, your services will be appreciated.


6. Act in a movie as a dancer. Several scripts call for a dancer, whether supporting roles, main role, or background extra, so go to those casting calls!


7. Get featured as a Dance writer. If you understand the intricacies of dance movement, anatomy, and physics, you can write for dance magazines, start a column, author a book, or consult others in their writing of dance. 


8. Record others as a Dance Photographer or videographer. Knowing the way a type of dance flows and its patterns beforehand, you can catch on film some pretty cool angles or challenge them in print!


9. Create as a Dance costume designer. Into fashion? Know how to sew, measure, and make clothing patterns? Like to dance? Research the period or look you are going for and make something unique for dancers to wear.


10. ***BONUS*** Become a Dance Therapist. Complete courses to become licensed in dance therapy, but be forewarned, if you are looking for a career in performing, this is quite different. You will use focus on movements of the body with music, to help others heal mentally, physically, and spiritually.

Are you dancing and planning to make a career out of it?

If so, please share that with me, so I know I’m not alone in my passion for dance and my desire to educate others ♡.

How Music 🎵 can Influence Your Feminine Life


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How Music can Control –ahem, I mean– Influence Your Feminine Life….


Music is a conditioning program; whenever you hear lyrics set to a rhythm, your cultivating those frequencies, which penetrate deeper, quicker, & easier with sound, into your genes, as you move and or sing along to a song. Soon your life will create a situation, in some clever and innovative way, that will have stemmed from the root of that song you listened to. It takes a reflective and discerning person to recognize the correlation between the music they listen to and the life they are experiencing.



This is why it is very important to be mindful of what you’re listening to and make sure you agree with all of the lyrics and its delivery (tone, inflection, attitude, spirit), because it will become your life in some kind of ingenious way.


As a feminine women, we should be listening to things that nurture our genetic disposition and purpose. It should create things such as beauty, harmony, balance, & love. These are the things that a feminine woman excels in. She spends a lot of her time meditating and focusing on those elements, as an ultra feminine one.


Some suggestions of good choices are: 

*peaceful instrumentals like classical romance or soothing traditional jazz

*sensual Eastern percussion

*divine inspirational lifts

*dramatic epic moods

*affirming and positive and loving lyrics


When a woman listens to bad sad evil relationship songs, crazy intense wild instrumental tracks, rated X lyrics, pessimistic life perspectives, & etc, she sets herself up for those senarios to play out in her life and if she’s already experienced that, it keeps her in that mindset, halting her growth and deliverance.


Consider the water and plant experiments that were widely publicized, especially water ones done by Masaru Emoto. Like this planet, we are 70% water. Music influences our emotions, thoughts, and speech. A woman creates things in her atmosphere, in her DNA, and in her near future, if not in her present, the energies that reflect from those areas.


What we believe, feel, and speak has resulted in our life, and is our life. Why focus on what you don’t want in life? If you want to change your life in anyway, change the music you’re listening to and start nurturing those things you want.


Curious about my current playlist? As I have many genres-centered ones, I’ll share a few songs from several of them here and here:-)

What are some of your favorite girly feminine songs?

Looking for Natural Perfumes?


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This post is the answer to Alice’s question:


I discovered 20 natural Oils & Perfumes, (no alcohol, no synthetics) listed below & sorted by price:

John Masters Organics – litsea cubeba, wild-forest petitgrain, ylang ylang, citrus base, rose & palmarosa

Rich Hippie – with sandalwood, sweet orange, patchouli & ylang ylang

R+Co – with sicilian lemon, tangerine, eucalyptus, green tea, tree moss & amber

For Her – with bulgarian rose, jasmine, apricot, & florentine iris

Forager Botanicals – with green coconut & a touch of tropical fruit

Kai Fragrance – with gardenia, jasmine, tuberose, lily, & cucumber


MCMC – with coconut oil, tiare flower, & vanilla

Lake & Skye – with fig, osmanthus, lily, honeysukle, tea rose, cedar & rain accord

Tsi La – with tuberose, jasmine, neroli, & sandalwood

Red Flower – with hibiscus flower

Rosie Jane – with pear, jasmine, & fresh cut grass

Maison Louis Marie with a set of 5, including  inoki wood, cedarwood , patchouli, white musk/ sandalwood, cedarwood, vetiver, nutmeg,  cinnamon, amber wood/ ylang jasmine, tropical tuberose,white lily, sandalwood/ grapefruit, orange, black pepper, cedarwood, patchouli,  geranium, vetiver, amber, musk/ cassis, bergamot, black pepper, white rose, oakmoss, musk, & tonka.

Lina Hanson with vanilla, sandalwood yuzu & ginger

Dasein – with blue spruce, black cardamom, forest pine, french lavender

Atelier – set of seven with pacific lime, orange sanguine, rose anonyme, clementine california, vanille insensée, iris rebelle, & bois blonds


They all sound and smell delectable, yet the Tsi La is the most appealing to me… Which scent(s) will you try?

3 Levels of Femininity


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I thought I was finished.

I couldn’t stay away.

Fresh, white crisp pages began calling me to imprint unsharpened lead on it. Well not really – I used a computer.

I wrote something again.


The volcanic desire to share what I learned with you, just had to be birthed, organized, and decorated. I saw it clearly one day, or rather night.


It was about the Layers in Femininity.

I found three different categories of Femininity women were in and what each meant. I interpreted quickly the revelation I was given in less than 12 hours. It turned out to be 50% of the book. Then it doubled itself over the next several days.


As a Feminine Expressive Arts Consultant, I included a treat in this course for my readers. This book contains nine various expressive arts activities, that are not only extremely therapeutic, but help a woman identify, understand, and polish each stage of femininity. Here’s an excerpt of  what’s inside:

Have you ever bought anything that says 100% of the contents inside? Did you know if you put a little bit of something else with it, it’s no longer 100%? Even if you put a tiny bit of something, like .0005%, it’s still not purely 100%. Appropriately, that’s the same with femininity. There’s femininity and then there’s diluted versions of femininity.

Think of the well-known chemical formula of H2O, which represents Water. If you change the compound to HO2, you get Hydroperoxyl instead. If you switch around the same components, you get very different results. Changing the elements of femininity evolves into an anomaly, a deviation, a mutation and it’s not pure femininity.

Each level of femininity has its own ingredients. The purest and highest form of femininity is unmixed, unpolluted, and unchanged from its original form. It can be smelled, tasted, felt, heard, and seen. Masculine men can sense immediately and subconsciously, if a woman has feminine attributes or not, as well as which level of femininity she is in, even though he is not feminine. A truly feminine spirit can be sensed by anyone in the atmosphere whether they are feminine or not.. 

Get your copy today of over 100 pages about the levels of femininity! For more pleasure, Watch my trailer on it here! Which level are you on? This book also has a test to place you in your current level of femininity, as well as affirmations for each level of femininity. Read this book to continue elevating in your journey of femininity today!


Dancing: a Sensual but Therapeutic Activity


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Dancing can be therapeutic…. There are soooo many types of dances too, to gratify every taste. But as a feminine-spirited girl, only the most sensual dances appeal to me. The Ancient Eastern Dances are the only ones that now appeal to me, but it wasn’t always that way.

I grew up dancing in church. And I mean literally, not figuratively! When I was a young girl, my family took me to a church and as soon as the drums started pounding for the church band, my mother had to grab me to hold me still; I had jumped out the pew in front of everybody and started moving my body to the beat. Her hands were clasped around my waist and stomach, but I didn’t care; I was still dancing.

Here’s a picture of my mom and I, around the time that occurred:

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Since then, I learned how to dance jazz, hip hop, pop n lock, wave, house, and step. Exactly 18 years ago, I took my first belly dance class. That lasted for three months, because it started to get too expensive at the time, but in that little time I soared.

Everything changed from that moment on. I never forgot about belly dancing and the exotic rhythms I heard. Shortly after, I began to fantasize about getting a group together and performing. That’s when I knew it penetrated my DNA. I started teaching myself the art by learning from great classic dancers. Since then I’ve performed & taught privately. Today, I am still studying to improve this beautiful art-form.


Doing research for my current class, I decided to share with you all the benefits that dancing can do for you. Especially now, since I recently became an expressive arts consultant.  For those that don’t know what that is: expressive arts is the practice of using the process of making art, not for the sake of the end result (a creation), but to help people transform, change, and improve their lives as they create. If you are interested in learning more click here.

Here’s the results of my findings~

26 Ways Dancing can be Therapeutic:

  1. relieves stress
  2. decreases anxiety
  3. boosts self-esteem
  4. enhances mobility
  5. reduces depression
  6. improves flexibility
  7. increases your energy
  8. increases quality of life
  9. promotes finer memory
  10. gives you better balance
  11. increases physical fitness
  12. develops gross motor skills
  13. gives one the ability to cope
  14. makes your heart healthier
  15. benefits lasts for a long time
  16. sharpens muscle coordination
  17. supports satisfying body image
  18. having fun while making friends
  19. a vehicle for expressing emotions
  20. encourages creativity and imagination
  21. gives an opportunity for social interaction
  22. boosts and improves self-confidence & esteem 
  23. burns 200-350 calories an hour for weight control
  24. like other athletics, it’s an accepted form of exercise
  25. becomes a ritual or habit, more than any other type of exercise
  26. increases well-being, affecting your mood in a good or positive way

Do you practice some form of dance as exercise or profession? If so what type and how long have you been doing it? If you’re a dancer, you might enjoy my dance quotes!

How to be Feminine in Today’s Society


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How to be Feminine in a society that promotes over-ambitious, aggressively competitive, & overtly sexual Women?

My personal conviction in 5 steps:


1. Stand firm in your Feminine strength, energy, and spirit. The Father gave you these traits innatel.  Believe in the power & validity of your gifts as a woman and allow no one to bully or dissuade you, unless you decide to change a faucet of yourself.  Be not ashamed nor embarrassed in what you were created to be!


2. Respect other opinions and decisions of women that don’t want to be feminine. Diversity in society keeps life interesting and it also allows our difference to be more pronounced.  We can learn and have relationships with everyone, as long as people are being their authentic and true selves without offending others. You will also gain the  respect of others, as you respect them too.


3. Find others of like-minded spirits in order to stay sharpened and rooted in your feminine  identity. Make friends, create a support group, and / or have get-togethers where you can share in girly like activities. (Join my new feminine community here!)


4.  Mastery is only achieved by perfectly practicing a skill. If you make a daily habit to perfect femininity,  you will constantly be immersed in it, and it will become natural for you to always respond in feminine ways, even in adverse environments.


5. Make a blueprint or strategy on how to carry out your feminine activities. For instance, my plan of practice is categorized by the day of the month, in which I spend time doing exercises in each feminine focus. See below:




Are you interested in my whole blueprint? I’ll be making a course out of this soon! If you would like to learn, join our FTP community here and opt in to the perfection feminine course.

How are you staying rooted in your femininity,  with all the political and personal changes in society involving gender identification and personality redefinition?

How I read books


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Is anyone else like this?

I feel like I’m the only one who does this, yet I’m open to the possibility that you might do it too.

I am a book lover. I love books.. Books have been my part of my world since I was a small child girl. I really owe my love of reading to my mother. Since I was small, she always made trips to the library fun. She read to me and help me read for myself. Whenever there were book orders through my school, I would always order several books.


There’s a saying in my family, that if you know how to read, you can learn to do anything. And it’s true. And books contain so much wisdom… Books have also helped me develop my vivid imagination. And I travel a lot through books. Add wisdom and imagination together and you get a lot of knowledge…

When I speak to frequent travelers, it appears that I have traveled more intensely than they have, only due to my active reading. Learning with passion, enthusiasm, and hunger can take you farther than any limitation in this world.


Looking at how I read books now, and I don’t recall how long I’ve been doing this, maybe since college..(come to think of it, college is probably what trained me to do this), but how I read books is:

1. I gather various topics / genres that I want to read about

2. I don’t pick one and read it all the way through (which is how everyone I know does it.)

3. I  proceed to read several books at once, a little bit at a time

Even up to eight!

Am I the only one who does this? There’s just so much to learn and explore that I cannot limit it to one book at a time!

That certainly is not linear. And when I think about it nothing in my life has been linear. I don’t even think God is linear. He deals with everything and cycles and circles. Just look at the planetary system and our seasons.


Sometimes I wish I could just pick up one book and read it all the way to the end. But there’s just too many that call my name at the same time. Is there something wrong with me? Or is this acceptable?

Now I also have two types of notetaking for my books. The first is I draw out the concepts I’m learning for a better memory and just because it’s so fun. The second is I get several colored pens or markers and highlight different things in the book for different reasons. See below for an Illustration, pun intended.

Here’s a picture of all the books I’m currently reading…How do you read books?


Sorry, my dog always enjoys being in all my photographs and videos!

What You Should Take When You Travel


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‘What You Should Take When You Travel’  or  ‘What I wish I took when I went on a trip’


It’s time to travel again and I so need this vacation yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Fortunately, I made a list of what I should’ve packed the last time I traveled. I’m sharing this with you, so you won’t make the same mistake if you’re not a regular traveler, but enjoy travel like me.


I thought I packed everything! But when I arrived at my destination, I realized I needed more than I brought… travel light they always say. Well I believe in travelling prepared!


*what I packed:


*what i should have packed:


Ugh! I cannot express to you in words how much I REALLY needed each of those items..

*what i will pack, this time:


Just bought this from Muzmm! This is really going to help me keep everything in order! if you want one too, I arranged 20% off for my followers my code: GIRLYTRAVELS at Click: to see other colors too!

CB0A5E0E-9EB8-43B6-9CA9-5CDBB1E88FC6  Since I’m a natural girl, I cannot use most of the products on the market. So I make my own!  I have to bring regular size because I go through them like water…


Because I enjoy journaling & reading!

What do you have to pack when you travel??