A feminine woman should be a professional hugger. Hugging is an art that gives to the huggee as well as the hugger.
Did you know that hugging:
~releases endorphins in your brain & body
~speeds up any physical recovery needed
~helps grow, keep, & mature you socially & emotionally
So why isn’t everybody doing it more?
Since the benefits are wonderful & free, we should use every opportunity, reason, & excuse to hug. Having a hug several times a day will make anyone happier, calmer, & sweeter.
Hugging can cheer, comfort, & connect you to someone. It’s a great form of physical communication. Whether or not we are lovers or friends, family or acquaintances, hugging is necessary for a luscious life.
There are 5 types of basic hugs:
- Front hug *best one!
- Side hug
- Angle hug
- Spoon hug
- Back hug
Any hug is good for you, but the front one seems to be the most popular & desired. Which one is your favorite?
* photo from Pinterest
One of the most noticeable pieces of jewelry are the rings on a finger. And each finger symbolizes different concepts in life. But the question for girly girls is what type of ring should you wear? Truly, one that represents your rich taste, your sweet spirit, & your playful personality.
Consider, some of the most prettiest rings are colored stones. Diamonds 💎 aren’t the only things that make a woman sparkle. These vintage-like gems are sure to captivate any onlooker with striking elegance.
While I really desire all of these, my fav of favs are the fushia oval ring on the top right & lime green rectangle on the bottom left.
Which one is your favorite?
All images are from my pinterest board.
I’m always in search of something pretty, girly, & feminine. This time I wanted a bag. A lovely pink bag. It doesn’t really how many bags I own, I still want another one. Is that bad?
I started & ended my search on Pinterest. Should I be looking elsewhere? What other sites may have a large collection of girly bags I could sort from? I have no idea, but I found the top 5 girliest handbags there.
Here are the results:
1. Chandelier Tote
2. Soft Melon Bag
3. Louis Vuitton Purse
4. Sheer Pearl Clutch
5. French Rose Bag
Do you agree they’re the best, or do you have a more girlier bag?
As a feminine woman, I do my best to bring girly things around me in every area of my life. Things that remind me I’m a woman, a feminine one. So I thought about what I believed a girl would have in her everyday bag to be prepared…for anything. Then I checked out other chic’s bag and refined my own.
So here are the results; what I feel every feminine woman should carry around her each day:
Inside my bag:
Hair Tie, black thick
Hair Tie, black thin
2 Bobby Pins
Pack of Bandages
5 Cotton Swabs
Drawstring Bag, pink small
Silver Stud Earrings
Handmade Hand Lotion
2 Candy Canes
Vitamin B pellet
What’s in your bag? Did I miss anything in mine?
I look at feminine clothing, almost daily. And I see a lot of clothes. Form-fitting, loose, heavy, soft, light, & dark, I search them all to create the most ultra girly looks.
For this new season in 2017, I selected five of the most feminine clothes I’ve seen thus far. It was challenging pairing it down to five, but these selections have many feminine elements in their styles.
Here they are…& why I picked them. (all photos taken from Pinterest in this post):
~ lace, lace, lace
~ reminiscent of Victorian era
~ full coverage elegance
~ shows curves in pants & playfulness in front slit blouse
~ uncommon rich texture
~ peachy color
~ girly cute
~ lace meets solid
~ curves & bright
~ extremely girly
What do you think of my choices? Can you see yourself wearing any of these or modified version of them?
Yes that’s right! I found femininity right in the Bible. These scriptures are found from the wisdom book of Proverbs…
Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul and health to the bones. Proverbs 16:24
This means we should have pleasant things to say because our words carry such powerful energy that it can effect not only the atmosphere, but our bodies as well. Sweet, loving, good words create health & pleasure to our souls and bodies while evil, bad, or negative ones are a detriment. This revelation from the Lord was given to us well before we discovered this fact to be true. And now new philosophies & religions have been created around this understanding, but our Creator explained this concept to His people first. We are now realizing the depth of this truth, with scientific studies currently supporting this.
Every wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one plucks it down with her hands. Proverbs 14:1
This one asserts that as feminine women, we need to learn to have discretion & understanding on how to not only create a ‘home’, but to maintain it. It is clear here, that the woman has the power to create a loving, healthy environment or a hateful, divided one. Proverbs has a lot of wonderful advice on how to make a wonderful home that your family feel safe, nurtured, & inspired in.
Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart. Proverbs 27:9
In one of my calls I expound on how important fragrance is and how it relates Biblically to the spiritual realm, so if you want more in depth info, go to my classes tab and access ref#14 on the conference call. Here’s a snippet of what I shared: perfume is an outer symbol of our character & nature. Every one is pleased to smell something delightful. We are full of joy to smell good things, so it is important to daily wear ‘inner’ perfume of the Spirit, which has nine distinct flavors or fruits. We should work on our character so that others are blessed by our presence and not put off by it. Each time you put on perfume, you should be reminded it is the invisible perfume we also carry us equally important to the makeup of our character and to bless others with.
Those are my top feminine scriptures from the Word of God. Do you identify with these or do other scriptures connect more with your feminine persona? Please share them with me!
Today I wanted to share pages from my feminine Journal, where I reflect on scents & smells…
So I found these Infographics on Pinterest (except 1st one) on perfume that I found fascinating:
The cost of smelling good rises as the concentration of oils, herbs, & flowers increase!
There’s a breakdown of the measure of pure scent in each type of perfume…seems very little.
Here’s a guide to the kinds of lovely smells you may be attracted to based on the scent group.
Enjoy the discovery of smells and being smelt 💖🌸🍥🌸💖
A feminine woman is not confusing, deceitful, nor conniving, but is clear and transparent about her feelings, desires, and intentions.
She makes them known whether subtly or overtly, but either way, one can see her behavior, thoughts, and speech all harmonize with her true motives.
Of course we aren’t all born this way. Most of us must learn it… And as I look back to my early school days I realize I acted so unfeminine, that it shames me to this day.
I spent the whole day with my best friend Mandy at Disneyland as my mom kindly escorted us. We had a ball together! Here’s a picture of us below, Mandy is on the left:
When we returned to my home & waited for her mom to pick her up, I didn’t want her to go home. I was having so much fun with her I wanted her to stay with me. Yet being a child, I didn’t know how to articulate this maturely, so I came up with a ‘bright idea’ to keep her with me. I told her that her mom was ugly. Now I don’t even remember how her mom looked, but I’m sure she was really lovely looking. I may have said this to Mandy, but I certainly didn’t mean it. I just thought she would think, well if she is, then I’ll stay with my friend. Sometimes, kids can make no sense! My words, however, had a negative affect on her, as you might guess. She started crying so intensely that when her mom came to pick her up, she was still crying. I was sad that she had to go, and her mom probably thought her daughter had a horrible time with me. I don’t recall anymore outings with her after that.
I wish I understood at that time how to plainly say, ‘hey Mandy, I had so much fun with you today, that I’d be sad for you to leave now. Wanna sleep over?’
That would have prevented me from fabricating stuff, making her cry, and gave me what I really wanted: more time with her. So Mandy, wherever you are now, I am so truly sorry for hurting your feelings with a lie because of my inability to express my feelings at that time.
Reflecting on this, causes me to wonder how many women are still fabricating stuff to try and get what they desire from a man? This is not the feminine nor honest way.
If we haven’t learned already, we should train ourselves to express our true feelings and wants to others without blame, judgement, or guilt. We should intuitively wait for the right time, with the right attitude in the right tone of voice and choice of words to share our thoughts and desires with others.
This is a painful lesson I’ve learned with Mandy. For I lost the confidence & friendship with my then best friend in one minute with one wrong and false word, for a lifetime.
Have you had any similar experiences that you’ve now learned from, regarding the expression of your feelings? I would love to hear about it and learn from it as well.
High Heels are not feminine…!
Before you throw your stilettos at me, please, let me explain.
You see the ‘high heel’ was originally created for men. That’s right FOR MEN around the world, to show higher status, to help ride animals, & to fight with weaponry. The shoes were bold, powerful, and masculine. Empires such as the Ottoman, Egyptian, Persian, Italian, & England all fortified its use into their culture & fashion.
Then the horrific happens:
Oh no!!! You mean to be more masculine, women decided to WEAR HEELS?!!
Now fast forward to the period of where women wanted ‘equal rights’ and in order to bring women equality in the work force, women wore heels. They understood that the shoes did several magical things for them:
*puts them on the same height level as the average man
*makes up for the deficiency or difference in women compared to men
*gives them a sense of strength, power, & command
But we know femininity is soft, submissive, & sweet. It is also very gentle and unassuming. So due to its nature & purpose, femininity cannot be activated with high heels. Femininity accepts the role of a man being strong, powerful, & in command. She must be at his side as his compliment not his competitor.
Now, where does this leave us? I have plenty of heels, so what should I do?
I don’t know if I will donate them all, but I am sure of this: I not only feel more feminine without them, but men are less intimidated to approach me when I wear flats or a very low heel.
Until I figure out the best & generous way to dispose of my high heels, I will continue to wear tennis shoes, flats, & low heels as I enjoy the company of masculine men 🙂