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1 Million ways to spend $20

14 Tuesday Mar 2017

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There’s 1 million ways to spend $20…at target. Yes it’s true. I can prove it. But for now, here’s how I decided to spend mine.

I needed some girlie things as well as practical things. I really wanted Milani lip gloss & a waffle maker. Unfortunately, the store I went to no longer carried waffle makers. They told me I had to order it online & have it shipped there, even though I saw tons of other appliances: coffee makers, toasters, mini ovens, blenders, etc. They even kept up the sign by the aisle labeled ‘Waffle Makers’ 😢 And to top it off, I saw every other cosmetic line but Miliani! (why?)

Note: this is not a complaint, I am thoroughly happy with my experience & purchases. 😊 I just went in with one purpose & came out with another.

So, after the rehearsal of putting 6 things in my cart & removing half of them at the register, here is what I purchased:

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I needed a lampshade for my lamp (also from target):

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A tray for holding my mini electronics gear:

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And decided to splurge on a very delectable smelling candle to bring a sweet earthy musk into my room:

How would you spend $20…at Target?

 

Why Hugging Might Save You…

27 Monday Feb 2017

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A feminine woman should be a professional hugger. Hugging is an art that gives to the huggee as well as the hugger.

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Did you know that hugging:

~releases endorphins in your brain & body

~speeds up any physical recovery needed

~helps grow, keep, & mature you socially & emotionally

So why isn’t everybody doing it more?

Since the benefits are wonderful & free, we should use every opportunity, reason, & excuse to hug. Having a hug several times a day will make anyone happier, calmer, & sweeter.

Hugging can cheer, comfort, & connect you to someone. It’s a great form of physical communication. Whether or not we are lovers or friends, family or acquaintances, hugging is necessary for a luscious life.

There are 5 types of basic hugs:

  1. Front hug *best one!
  2. Side hug
  3. Angle hug
  4. Spoon hug
  5. Back hug

Any hug is good for you, but the front one seems to be the most popular & desired.  Which one is your favorite?

* photo from Pinterest

Top 3 Feminine Scriptures in the Bible!

09 Monday Jan 2017

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Yes that’s right! I found femininity right in the Bible. These scriptures are found from the wisdom book of Proverbs…

Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul and health to the bones. Proverbs 16:24

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This means we should have pleasant things to say because our words carry such powerful energy that it can effect not only the atmosphere, but our bodies as well. Sweet, loving, good words create health & pleasure to our souls and bodies while evil, bad, or negative ones are a detriment. This revelation from the Lord was given to us well before we discovered this fact to be true. And now new philosophies & religions have been created around this understanding, but our Creator explained this concept to His people first. We are now realizing the depth of this truth, with scientific studies currently supporting this.

Every wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one plucks it down with her hands. Proverbs 14:1

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This one asserts that as feminine women, we need to learn to have discretion & understanding on how to not only create a ‘home’, but to maintain it. It is clear here, that the woman has the power to create a loving, healthy environment or a hateful, divided one. Proverbs has a lot of wonderful advice on how to make a wonderful home that your family feel safe, nurtured, & inspired in.

Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart. Proverbs 27:9

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In one of my calls I expound on how important fragrance is and how it relates Biblically to the spiritual realm, so if you want more in depth info, go to my classes tab and access ref#14 on the conference call. Here’s a snippet of what I shared: perfume is an outer symbol of our character & nature. Every one is pleased to smell something delightful. We are full of joy to smell good things, so it is important to daily wear ‘inner’ perfume of the Spirit, which has nine distinct flavors or fruits. We should work on our character so that others are blessed by our presence and not put off by it. Each time you put on perfume, you should be reminded it is the invisible perfume we also carry us equally important to the makeup of our character and to bless others with.

Those are my top feminine scriptures from the Word of God. Do you identify with these or do other scriptures connect more with your feminine persona? Please share them with me!

The Fragrant One

29 Thursday Dec 2016

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Hi Lovelies!

Today I wanted to share pages from my feminine Journal, where I reflect on scents & smells…

So I found these Infographics on Pinterest (except 1st one) on perfume that I found fascinating:

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The cost of smelling good rises as the concentration of oils, herbs, & flowers increase!

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There’s a breakdown of the measure of pure scent in each type of perfume…seems very little.

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Here’s a guide to the kinds of lovely smells you may be attracted to based on the scent group.

Enjoy the discovery of smells and being smelt 💖🌸🍥🌸💖

How High Heels are Masculine still today..

07 Wednesday Dec 2016

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High Heels are not feminine…!

Before you throw your stilettos at me, please, let me explain.

You see the ‘high heel’ was originally created for men. That’s right FOR MEN around the world, to show higher status, to help ride animals, & to fight with weaponry. The shoes were bold, powerful, and masculine. Empires such as the Ottoman, Egyptian, Persian, Italian, & England all fortified its use into their culture & fashion.

Then the horrific happens:

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Oh no!!! You mean to be more masculine,  women decided to WEAR HEELS?!!

Now fast forward to the period of where women wanted ‘equal rights’ and in order to bring women equality in the work force, women wore heels. They understood that the shoes did several magical things for them:

*puts them on the same height level as the average man

*makes up for the deficiency or difference in women compared to men

*gives them a sense of strength, power, & command

But we know femininity is soft, submissive, & sweet. It is also very gentle and unassuming. So due to its nature & purpose, femininity cannot be activated with high heels. Femininity accepts the role of a man being strong, powerful, & in command. She must be at his side as his compliment not his competitor.

Now, where does this leave us? I have plenty of heels, so what should I do?

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I don’t know if I will donate them all, but I am sure of this: I not only feel more feminine without them, but men are less intimidated to approach me when I wear flats or a very low heel.

Until I figure out the best & generous way to dispose of my high heels, I will continue to wear tennis shoes,  flats, & low heels as I enjoy the company of masculine men 🙂

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Call Me ‘Exotic’

23 Tuesday Aug 2016

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Recently, I found & read something surprising on a blog and then about a current young girl movement. They explained why they are emphatically against being labeled as, of all things, ‘exotic’. Their sentiment seems to stem from the word used to describe a particular the category of inanimate living things like animals, plants, fruits, or flowers. Therefore, it appeared degrading to them to be termed as such.

Yes, I agree with the freedom to think, feel, & form an opinion about anything in this world of ours. So I have no argument against those girls & young women, who feel this way. What one perceives, is, what one perceives..

Yet, as for me, I have an affinity with this word EXOTIC…

It is defined as very different, strange, unusual, & Mysterious…

In addition, something exotic is also seen as from another part of the world or from a foreign place.

Well, according the John 18:36, I AM EXOTIC!

Jesus answered, “My Kingdom is not of this world; if my kingdom were of this world, then would my servants fight,….”

Because the Son of Man is my King, I belong to his Kingdom. And not of this world.

Truly, exotic-ness to a person is relative to the environment he or she lives in, like accents or produce. It is also a point of view. So, as a feminine woman, I personally don’t mind being grouped in with the flowers & fruits. Women have ALWAYS been associated with these things since the beginning of time, along with various types of foods or spices..

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We are known as peaches, cherries, berries, & limes. Men refer to us as pumpkins, honey, sugar, & syrups! And aren’t we the roses, violets, and tulips of a man’s heart?

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Oh, do think of me as Exotic!

There are many facial and physical features some people find exotic, like sharp cheek bones, coarse hair, sexy round eyes, & bubble butts, but I prefer my spirit be exotic above these. I desire to come from foreign lands & realms, to tell tales of special kingdoms forgotten by men. I want to share the native intangible gifts my presence brings to any person willing to embrace me. I love to be extra-ordinary, to deliver refreshment to anyone’s mundane lifestyle.

I breath to embody the EXOTIC.

Please tell me you aren’t offended by this & that you have another perspective on this word as well.

I am NOT that Salad Girl

16 Tuesday Aug 2016

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I am NOT that salad girl…

Ok… We women have heard it from many men! They hate it when a girl they’re dating orders the salad and barely eats it. Well I’ve got the share something with you:

I am NOT that salad girl.

When I am fortunate to be graced with a man’s presence on a date, I give him the pleasure.

The pleasure of me eating meat
The pleasure of ordering for me
The pleasure of finishing the whole plate
The pleasure of being myself when I eat food
The pleasure of not demanding the most expensive, yet not choosing the cheapest
The pleasure of not telling him what he should & shouldn’t order
The pleasure of just letting him be him

You see I come to the date HUNGRY. And therefore, the man sees my food choice as realistic & acceptable, since it is what a normally choose. He knows it wont change later on. He learns that…

I am NOT that salad girl

I thought about my thoughts and almost titled this post ‘what women should order on a date’. Then I thought: what if there are some women allergic to meat, or worse, all foods except salads? What if for dietary or medical or religious reasons, they cannot eat whatever they want? What if they genuinely like..*gulp*…salads?

As the shock of my revelations calmed down, I realize that I can accept this. I will not ask them to change to please the man that can’t stand the salad ordering girl. But as for me, my house, & men that want to date me, I proudly declare that:

I am NOT that salad girl

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What Men really Want, part 2

03 Wednesday Aug 2016

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It’s easy to find out what men want, but to give it to them precisely in the uniqueness of their individuality, takes skills. Every man wants something that differs from other men, as each one is specific & has individual needs. But there are some general agreements that the following things are inherit in most men.

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Our appreciation~
Men love it when we appreciate anything they do for us. From grand to small or little to big, it makes them feel good about doing something for you when you show genuine thankfulness towards them.

A safe place to open up~
Every man needs a nurturing nest to go to, when the harshness of this world beats against their soul each day. They want to come home to a place that they can rest, have peace, regenerate their spirits, & reveal their secrets.

Hidden gem(s) discovered in him~
Every one wants to feel unique, especially to the person they love & care about. When you draw out, magnify, & celebrate attributes in your man, he takes notice & beams inside. He feels good & thinks you’re special for acknowledging something lovely that others don’t. It could be anything that other men do not have, or don’t do, or are not.

Shown a deeper love~
Men want to experience love that they cannot get from their parents, their male buddies, or a child. They want a woman who is not afraid to love them. The type of love that is not afraid to reach out first & fully, while sinking past the surface, in order to share deeper emotions of love, kindness, tenderness, gentleness, & affection. This love shares loving thoughts & demonstrates loving behavior, at all times.

To be around a confident woman~
A woman who believes & knows she has something no other woman has is powerful. She accepts her imperfections as her unique trademark, which frees her to be able to enjoy sharing her true talents with her man. She isn’t insecure to the point of debilitation neither is she a nuisance toward other women. She simply is…radiating confidence!

 

How to inherently live in Feminine Energy

03 Friday Jun 2016

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Sometimes it’s overwhelming to mature in all the nuances of becoming a natural woman at once. From dress to movements & character to spirit, there is a lot of work to do!

But you can make your journey easier & quicker by living in feminine energy. This is achieved through your thoughts. When you daily think FEMININE, it become a subconscious part of you.

At that moment, you make the transference from actively & consciously working on it, to innately & subconsciously being it….how lovely!

There are many fun ways to incorporate femininity into your day. Here are four ways, taken from my book the 39 Elements to Femininity:

~Place the most softest images in front of you each day. Put them in a place where you dwell in and/or look at the most. Here are great illustrations:

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~Listen to at least 3-5 *beautiful* songs every day. Something romantic or sensual, serene or nature-like, harmonic or celestial, & epic or mellow, to alter any harshness encountered with your day, with your environment, with your past, and/or with your circle of friends.

My favs are:

1. Micha El ~ The Image of God ~ Aramaic
2. Axiom of Choice ~Turquoise Island – Farsi ( I believe )
3. Hossam Ramzy ~ Tool Omri Ba-Hebbak ( I loved you all my life ) ~ Arabic

~Watch movies with the classiest women & watch how they move and respond to stimuli around them. Imitate them in a mirror to make sure you are doing it precisely like them.

I recommend Funny Face (1957), Belle (2013), & One Night with the King (2006)

~Practice making *lovely* sounds every day. You can speak the most loveliest words into your conversations, make ooos or ahhs, practice playing a soft instrument, like a flute, hand cymbals, violin, or mimic various cute animals utterances.

The words I love to use in my interactions are ‘fluffy’,’ lovely’, & ‘marshmallows’.

Taking a small amount of time out of your day of 24 hours, & really about 16 waking hours, it is possible to interweave most of these elements into your day or even once a week, since the movies are about 2 hours long 🙂

If you would like more information, check out my book*, where I prescribe 39 elements for you to unleash your femininity within 5 weeks.

*Available on kindle & print.

Why waiting for the One is the best path in living extreme femininity

09 Wednesday Mar 2016

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True feminine women are moving with the flow of life. Her essence is to go along with the changes of moods, atmospheres, life cycles, & society. She is always adjusting herself to best fit the current situation and to present herself in the best light.

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The nature of a man is a go-getter, to make things happen, to accomplish and succeed. He is the pursuer of things. This is an alpha, masculine male. He knows and operates in his role, just as a feminine woman does in hers.

She does not step outside of it.

She does not take upon his role.

She does not delight in being anything else, but feminine.

Feminine women attract their polar opposite, a masculine man, to the degree that she is feminine. If she lives from her femininity at the core, she will attract a masculine man. He will come. And He will come for her.

She doesn’t have to look for him nor does she have to manipulate a man into being with her. If she does, she is not trusting in her proper function and purpose. And she certainly isn’t being feminine.

The feminine one waits for him to arrive and to choose her. But this waiting is not an idle period. It is a time of reflection, reshaping, and reconditioning herself to best live with the man that finally appears. She may go to shows that he may be at, she may be seen by him in her girly work, or she may just be known by close friends for her great character, but she will be found.

When she is found, she will be ready to receive him, as he will see her as a refreshing flower to his thirsty soul…

Are you ready to receive your love? The one God has chosen for you? Or have you found him already?

Please share your experience with me…