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What’s in My Bag..and what should be in yours too

25 Wednesday Jan 2017

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As a feminine woman, I do my best to bring girly things around me in every area of my life. Things that remind me I’m a woman, a feminine one. So I thought about what I believed a girl would have in her everyday bag to be prepared…for anything. Then I checked out other chic’s bag and refined my own.

So here are the results; what I feel every feminine woman should carry around her each day:

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Inside my bag:

Hair Tie, black thick

Hair Tie, black thin

2 Bobby Pins

Teeth Cleaner

Pack of Bandages

5 Cotton Swabs

Heart Mirror

Hand Sanitizer

Perfume sample

Lip Balm

Drawstring Bag, pink small

Silver Stud Earrings

Handmade Hand Lotion

2 Candy Canes

Sunglasses

Vitamin B pellet

Handkerchief

What’s in your bag? Did I miss anything in mine?

Top 3 Feminine Scriptures in the Bible!

09 Monday Jan 2017

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Yes that’s right! I found femininity right in the Bible. These scriptures are found from the wisdom book of Proverbs…

Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul and health to the bones. Proverbs 16:24

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This means we should have pleasant things to say because our words carry such powerful energy that it can effect not only the atmosphere, but our bodies as well. Sweet, loving, good words create health & pleasure to our souls and bodies while evil, bad, or negative ones are a detriment. This revelation from the Lord was given to us well before we discovered this fact to be true. And now new philosophies & religions have been created around this understanding, but our Creator explained this concept to His people first. We are now realizing the depth of this truth, with scientific studies currently supporting this.

Every wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one plucks it down with her hands. Proverbs 14:1

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This one asserts that as feminine women, we need to learn to have discretion & understanding on how to not only create a ‘home’, but to maintain it. It is clear here, that the woman has the power to create a loving, healthy environment or a hateful, divided one. Proverbs has a lot of wonderful advice on how to make a wonderful home that your family feel safe, nurtured, & inspired in.

Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart. Proverbs 27:9

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In one of my calls I expound on how important fragrance is and how it relates Biblically to the spiritual realm, so if you want more in depth info, go to my classes tab and access ref#14 on the conference call. Here’s a snippet of what I shared: perfume is an outer symbol of our character & nature. Every one is pleased to smell something delightful. We are full of joy to smell good things, so it is important to daily wear ‘inner’ perfume of the Spirit, which has nine distinct flavors or fruits. We should work on our character so that others are blessed by our presence and not put off by it. Each time you put on perfume, you should be reminded it is the invisible perfume we also carry us equally important to the makeup of our character and to bless others with.

Those are my top feminine scriptures from the Word of God. Do you identify with these or do other scriptures connect more with your feminine persona? Please share them with me!

The Fragrant One

29 Thursday Dec 2016

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Hi Lovelies!

Today I wanted to share pages from my feminine Journal, where I reflect on scents & smells…

So I found these Infographics on Pinterest (except 1st one) on perfume that I found fascinating:

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The cost of smelling good rises as the concentration of oils, herbs, & flowers increase!

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There’s a breakdown of the measure of pure scent in each type of perfume…seems very little.

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Here’s a guide to the kinds of lovely smells you may be attracted to based on the scent group.

Enjoy the discovery of smells and being smelt 💖🌸🍥🌸💖

Call Me ‘Exotic’

23 Tuesday Aug 2016

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Recently, I found & read something surprising on a blog and then about a current young girl movement. They explained why they are emphatically against being labeled as, of all things, ‘exotic’. Their sentiment seems to stem from the word used to describe a particular the category of inanimate living things like animals, plants, fruits, or flowers. Therefore, it appeared degrading to them to be termed as such.

Yes, I agree with the freedom to think, feel, & form an opinion about anything in this world of ours. So I have no argument against those girls & young women, who feel this way. What one perceives, is, what one perceives..

Yet, as for me, I have an affinity with this word EXOTIC…

It is defined as very different, strange, unusual, & Mysterious…

In addition, something exotic is also seen as from another part of the world or from a foreign place.

Well, according the John 18:36, I AM EXOTIC!

Jesus answered, “My Kingdom is not of this world; if my kingdom were of this world, then would my servants fight,….”

Because the Son of Man is my King, I belong to his Kingdom. And not of this world.

Truly, exotic-ness to a person is relative to the environment he or she lives in, like accents or produce. It is also a point of view. So, as a feminine woman, I personally don’t mind being grouped in with the flowers & fruits. Women have ALWAYS been associated with these things since the beginning of time, along with various types of foods or spices..

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We are known as peaches, cherries, berries, & limes. Men refer to us as pumpkins, honey, sugar, & syrups! And aren’t we the roses, violets, and tulips of a man’s heart?

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Oh, do think of me as Exotic!

There are many facial and physical features some people find exotic, like sharp cheek bones, coarse hair, sexy round eyes, & bubble butts, but I prefer my spirit be exotic above these. I desire to come from foreign lands & realms, to tell tales of special kingdoms forgotten by men. I want to share the native intangible gifts my presence brings to any person willing to embrace me. I love to be extra-ordinary, to deliver refreshment to anyone’s mundane lifestyle.

I breath to embody the EXOTIC.

Please tell me you aren’t offended by this & that you have another perspective on this word as well.

What Men really Want, part 2

03 Wednesday Aug 2016

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It’s easy to find out what men want, but to give it to them precisely in the uniqueness of their individuality, takes skills. Every man wants something that differs from other men, as each one is specific & has individual needs. But there are some general agreements that the following things are inherit in most men.

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Our appreciation~
Men love it when we appreciate anything they do for us. From grand to small or little to big, it makes them feel good about doing something for you when you show genuine thankfulness towards them.

A safe place to open up~
Every man needs a nurturing nest to go to, when the harshness of this world beats against their soul each day. They want to come home to a place that they can rest, have peace, regenerate their spirits, & reveal their secrets.

Hidden gem(s) discovered in him~
Every one wants to feel unique, especially to the person they love & care about. When you draw out, magnify, & celebrate attributes in your man, he takes notice & beams inside. He feels good & thinks you’re special for acknowledging something lovely that others don’t. It could be anything that other men do not have, or don’t do, or are not.

Shown a deeper love~
Men want to experience love that they cannot get from their parents, their male buddies, or a child. They want a woman who is not afraid to love them. The type of love that is not afraid to reach out first & fully, while sinking past the surface, in order to share deeper emotions of love, kindness, tenderness, gentleness, & affection. This love shares loving thoughts & demonstrates loving behavior, at all times.

To be around a confident woman~
A woman who believes & knows she has something no other woman has is powerful. She accepts her imperfections as her unique trademark, which frees her to be able to enjoy sharing her true talents with her man. She isn’t insecure to the point of debilitation neither is she a nuisance toward other women. She simply is…radiating confidence!

 

How to inherently live in Feminine Energy

03 Friday Jun 2016

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Sometimes it’s overwhelming to mature in all the nuances of becoming a natural woman at once. From dress to movements & character to spirit, there is a lot of work to do!

But you can make your journey easier & quicker by living in feminine energy. This is achieved through your thoughts. When you daily think FEMININE, it become a subconscious part of you.

At that moment, you make the transference from actively & consciously working on it, to innately & subconsciously being it….how lovely!

There are many fun ways to incorporate femininity into your day. Here are four ways, taken from my book the 39 Elements to Femininity:

~Place the most softest images in front of you each day. Put them in a place where you dwell in and/or look at the most. Here are great illustrations:

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~Listen to at least 3-5 *beautiful* songs every day. Something romantic or sensual, serene or nature-like, harmonic or celestial, & epic or mellow, to alter any harshness encountered with your day, with your environment, with your past, and/or with your circle of friends.

My favs are:

1. Micha El ~ The Image of God ~ Aramaic
2. Axiom of Choice ~Turquoise Island – Farsi ( I believe )
3. Hossam Ramzy ~ Tool Omri Ba-Hebbak ( I loved you all my life ) ~ Arabic

~Watch movies with the classiest women & watch how they move and respond to stimuli around them. Imitate them in a mirror to make sure you are doing it precisely like them.

I recommend Funny Face (1957), Belle (2013), & One Night with the King (2006)

~Practice making *lovely* sounds every day. You can speak the most loveliest words into your conversations, make ooos or ahhs, practice playing a soft instrument, like a flute, hand cymbals, violin, or mimic various cute animals utterances.

The words I love to use in my interactions are ‘fluffy’,’ lovely’, & ‘marshmallows’.

Taking a small amount of time out of your day of 24 hours, & really about 16 waking hours, it is possible to interweave most of these elements into your day or even once a week, since the movies are about 2 hours long 🙂

If you would like more information, check out my book*, where I prescribe 39 elements for you to unleash your femininity within 5 weeks.

*Available on kindle & print.

Your Voice

02 Monday May 2016

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A Feminine Woman must have a euphonious voice in order to harmonize with the rest of her girly-ness. A woman who is maturing in her femininity but sounds brash, roaring, grating, piercing, or whining in her speech, will not be desirable to be around. And femininity is mainly about creating a space and atmosphere of desire.

Desire to love, desire to nurture, desire to be…

Men love to hear a Femme who sounds lovely and lilting. If she purrs, whirs, sighs, hums, murmurs, and whispers, he will find her delightful company! For these reasons, if you as a feminine woman, do not already sound this way, we must get to work of your voice immediately!

In order to have a sweet euphonious voice, we should look at terms to describe the quality of sound. I turned toward musical lexicon to do so. Here are a few of the most essential parts of great sound quality:

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*Pure ~ your throat must not be coated with dairy products in order to produce a pure sound
*Tune ~ you must find to right level range for you voice to operate in, if you go to high or low, you will place stress on your vocal cords
*Pitch ~ your voice creates high , low, or flat frequencies in sound waves; find a comfortable yet feminine one for your distinct voice
*Focus ~ you must not be distracted with other ideas and thoughts when you speak, keep all your energy on the current topic and you will sound more compelling
*Octave ~ your voice makes pressures in bands of notes and its important to again find your right range for your voice
*Volume ~ you must choose the appropriate occasions to raise or lower your voice
*Softness ~ your voice should have some level of softness to it and not harshness, which signals danger-stay away
*Energy ~ your voice’s unique rhythm, syllable stress, use of intonation, and adding pauses to your speech
*Clarity ~ your voice should clearly and sharply shape your words
Inflection ~ your voice’s ups & downs in sounds of your language
*Harmony ~ how your voice bring these sound elements as well as other parts of you ( mind, body, spirit, & soul ) together as one

If you approach each one of these and seek to perfect them in our voice, you will have great resonance with others and create a pleasant response in their moods & actions toward you.

Now go and create mellifluous sounds with your internal instrument and great wonder called the VOICE!

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Famous Quotes about Feminine Women

04 Monday Apr 2016

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I’d love to share with you 9 inspirational quotes that explore, explain, & expound on your femininity:

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Every Flower must grow through Dirt ~unknown author

*You are being MADE through your unique background, experiences, & situations.

Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself ~Coco Chanel | Amelie Laurent

*There is no carbon copy of YOU! Unless you are an identical twin, your DNA, thoughts, and behavior are unique. Please don’t rob people of the experience of being with you.

Nothing Makes a woman more beautiful, than the belief that she is beautiful~Sophia Loren

*Whatever you truly believe, you become…so reflect carefully & think BEAUTIFUL.

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Elegance is the only beauty that never fades~Audrey Hepburn

*Beauty also includes class. Work on a type of class that transcends time, event, & location.

I’m going to make everything around me beautiful – that will be my life~Elsie de Wolfe

*To be beautiful is lovely, but to create beauty wherever you are is divine.

Beauty isn’t about looking perfect, it’s about celebrating your individuality ~Bobbi Brown

*Looking like the standard model of beauty doesn’t give opportunity for others to see your difference and appreciate it.

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Admire someone else’s beauty without questing your own~unknown

*Most of us secretly harbor this insecurity, but not everyone is or has to be victim to it. The cure is to celebrate others beauty and understand your beauty is no lesser than the next woman’s, just different.

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle~James Keller

*Compliments to another woman do not negate your own beauty; you are beautiful too!

You are the woman some guy is praying for~unknown

*Know that your special difference is EXACTLY what some man that is asking God for, needs..

 

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